The piece explores the complexities of African womanhood characterized by endurance and resilience amidst patriarchal oppression. It critiques the expectation for women to silently bear pain in love, work, and healthcare while encouraging expression and visibility. The author advocates for writing as a means of resistance, emphasizing the need for recognition and empowerment beyond suffering.
Category: Her Musings
When Christmas was simple
Christmas means many things to different people. Although it is widely accepted that Jesus Christ was not born on the 25th of December, it is still an important holiday in the Christian calendar. One that symbolises the birth of the Messiah, who came to redeem the sins of the people. In most cases, it is… Continue reading When Christmas was simple
Finishing Strong
As the year draws to a close, the infamous year end fatigue kicks in. The weight of chasing deadlines, making decisions and implementing them now feels heavy. Waking up in the morning suddenly seems harder, days are unbearably long and the high temperatures don't help either. Still, in all that weariness, so much still demands… Continue reading Finishing Strong
Authenticity in a World that Demands Conformity: Embracing Your True Colours
“You can’t go on all the time being whatever’s necessary. You’ve got to have some conviction…" - Tsitsi Dangarembga From the day you are born, there’s an unspoken expectation to fit in. To behave a certain way. To dream within acceptable limits. To speak only what is deemed polite. Society rewards those who blend in.… Continue reading Authenticity in a World that Demands Conformity: Embracing Your True Colours
Silence is never the answer
10 September is World Suicide Prevention Day. May this day and every day remind us that there is always hope. Photo by Kelly on Pexels.com His steps dragged against the earth, weary as if the ground itself resisted carrying him forward. Shoulders slumped, lost in thoughts too heavy for him to bear. He made his… Continue reading Silence is never the answer
