Image generated by AI If you had to choose between what feeds your soul and what pays bills what would you choose? On the surface, it seems like a fairly easy question, but the deeper you think about it the more complicated it becomes. Some people are fortunate enough to have passions that also pay… Continue reading Passion vs paycheck- the real cost of choosing purpose over 9-5
Category: Her Musings
Women who were taught to walk on eggshells
If I wrote a book, it would definitely be about women. Of course it would be about women. The women who were taught to walk on eggshells. They were always careful, almost afraid to make a sound, to let their presence be fully felt. Because women, they were told, must be seen only and not… Continue reading Women who were taught to walk on eggshells
When giants fight, the children suffer
Three giants emerge, one from the East, drapped in oil, the other from the West, clothed in wealth and power, the third giant, seemingly small in size but formidable. The giants are fighting, none wants to concede. Each is ready to show its military prowess and strength. They have been training for years. Farther East,… Continue reading When giants fight, the children suffer
Letter to my 12-year old self on International Women’s Day
On International Women’s Day, a twelve-year-old reflects on her transition into womanhood amid childhood simplicity. She contemplates the complexities of rights and identity, challenges societal norms, and embraces curiosity despite expectations. The narrative encourages her to find strength, speak out against injustices, and nurture both resilience and softness as she grows.
African womanhood and the burden of endurance
The piece explores the complexities of African womanhood characterized by endurance and resilience amidst patriarchal oppression. It critiques the expectation for women to silently bear pain in love, work, and healthcare while encouraging expression and visibility. The author advocates for writing as a means of resistance, emphasizing the need for recognition and empowerment beyond suffering.
